This is my second most popular program! (The most popular is confidence
and focus for business/career/sports.)
This is for men who are genuinely seeking a long-term
relationship.
People tell you, 'Just be yourself' but sometimes that's
not as easy as it sounds! If you could do it just like that,
it wouldn't be an issue and you wouldn’t be interested in
help to improve your confidence with women. So what else can
you do?
The answer may lie in confidence coaching and hypnosis.
With coaching and hypnosis, you can gain the confidence and skill
you need to approach any woman, any time. No tricks or gimmicks
- this is about gaining authentic confidence with women. If you
have to learn tricks to get a woman interested in you, you won't
feel good about yourself because you'll always know that you had
to resort to tricks to get her.
Forget about those 'speed seduction' seminars run by men who
get rich on teaching you how to create an attraction or 'instant
'chemistry' using various behaviours (including being insulting
- euphemistically referred to as 'being cheeky'). If you sincerely
want a long-term relationship rather than a fling that will probably
end acrimoniously, those trainings aren't for you. You won't get
a secure confident woman using those lines or techniques.
If you want to know how to talk to women, ask a woman! I've helped
thousands of men all over the world learn how to be confident
with attractive women. Authentic self-confidence (not
to be confused with arrogance) is alluring all by itself! And
once you're in the relationship, you can rest assured that she
was attracted to the real you right from the beginning and didn't
merely fall for some con tricks.
My confidence with women program involves four sessions of coaching
and hypnosis, which includes using some NLP techniques where applicable
to change the neurological links you have to certain situations
that are causing you to behave in ways that sabotage your chances
or "get in your own way" within a relationship or when
meeting someone new.
I will outline why traditional chat-up lines and why the techniques
out there, taught by men to men may not work long-term and may
attract the' wrong' type of woman for you.
I will explain the basics about recognising unconscious self-sabotage
- how you can recognise it in your behaviour, how you can stop
it and use positive self-talk and resourceful questions in our
internal voices, and much more. (This eradication of self-sabotage
will be reinforced in hypnosis.)
Each coaching session lasts around 30 minutes.
The remainder of your 90 minute session will involve the hypnosis,
which reinforces and builds upon what we've talked about and specifically
what you have said you want.
It will include instilling the confidence and creativity to make
small talk and do some light-hearted flirting anywhere anytime
- even in the produce section of the supermarket :)
And you don't even need to leave your home to have your sessions.
Set up a chat with me by phone or Skype
and I'll answer any questions you may have about this.
In the meantime, I'll tell you a bit about the hypnosis:
initially, you are gently guided through a beautiful metaphor
to release unresourceful negative emotions, thoughts, characteristics
and behaviour that may be weighing you down and holding you back.
This type of hypnosis is called Eriksonian hypnosis meaning that
stories or metaphors are used, within which positive suggestions
concerning new behaviours and thought patterns are embedded. This
is great for people like myself who don’t enjoy or accept people
telling them what to do! :)
Once your conscious mind is quieted and accepts the process,
I will then move onto many repetitive positive post hypnotic suggestions
carefully designed to instil more authentic self-confidence, self-belief,
inner strength, creativity and motivation to go for what you want
in life as well as the willingness to trust yourself, make decisions
with the applicable facts, uncover your values, take action where/when
appropriate, and the creativity to come up with solutions to problems.
I will also embed the NLP techniques you learned in the coaching
in hypnosis.
Why do I work by phone?
Initially, it was because I lived in a rural location and my clients
were many miles away (my clients were and are dotted around all
over the world). This method has worked phenomenally well! I now
recommend it even for local clients who could have sessions in
person.
My clients generally recline in their LazyBoy or get cosy on/in
their beds, i.e. they lie down in a place they associate with
comfort and relaxation. In my opinion, the huge benefit clients
derive from my hypnosis sessions - and so quickly - is in part
due to the fact they can relax more deeply more quickly when they
are able to feel safe and relaxed in their own home rather than
an unfamiliar office somewhere, i.e. at home they're in an environment
they can control.
A note about the hypnosis part, it's beneficial to have a comfortable
set of headphones that you can plug into your phone. Some clients
put me on speaker phone, but I strongly recommend headphones,
so you can be sure of your subconscious hearing and therefore
absorbing everything easily. Usually people fall into a hypnotic
sleep. That’s fine – your mind will still ‘hear’ everything, but
I would prefer you to be wearing headphones, so that my voice
is clearly audible to your subconscious mind during that time.
When you emerge from the hypnosis, you’ll feel like you've had
a refreshing nap for about 50-60 minutes. Clients always tell
me that they wake up next day feeling fantastic! Clients have
reported that people around them – work colleagues, friends and
family - comment on how much more positive, communicative and
approachable they are.
A wonderful side effect of my sessions is that clients report
is that they sleep much more soundly and that their primary relationships
are better.
If you'd like to have an informal chat sometime about this over
the 'phone or Skype, let me know. You
can tell me what you want to change and I can explain how coaching
and hypnosis can help you.
Check the page 'how does this work?'
to find out how I run my coaching and hypnosis sessions.
Want to book your sessions now? The button to do that is at the
bottom of this page.
Note:
The information and guidance on this website, on audios, and given
during sessions, seminars and webinars are not intended to replace
the care or advice of a physician, psychiatrist or psychologist.
